It's a timeless narrative, particularly in heteronormative relationships. Imagine this scenario: It's date night, and as a woman in a heterosexual partnership, you meticulously dress up for the occasion. Whether it's an elegant dinner, a captivating show, or an enriching museum visit, you've carefully curated the perfect ensemble to match the event. After all, half the fun of going out is getting dressed up, right? But then, your male partner appears in basketball shorts and a casual tee.
Suddenly, your dream of embodying the coordinated elegance of power couples like George and Amal Clooney dissipates. It feels as if you and your partner are headed to two completely different events: he's off to shoot hoops with his friends while you're attending a red carpet affair. In simpler terms, he's just being himself, while you find yourself in the Mojo Dojo Casa House of fashion. I could recount countless instances where this dynamic played out in my own relationship (including this past weekend), but I'll save the anecdotes for another time.
Hailey and Justin Bieber, proving that they're an ordinary couple, stepped out in New York City on Monday to attend the launch event for Hailey's Strawberry Peptide Lip Treatment. Throughout the day, Hailey showcased thoughtfully curated outfits (thanks to her stylist, Dani Michelle) that embraced the “strawberry girl” aesthetic. From a monochromatic glamour ensemble to a white minidress paired with “tomato girl” accessories, she fully embraced the theme. After her appearance on Good Morning America, the model attended a launch event at Krispy Kreme, where she indulged in strawberry glazed donuts while donning a crimson-colored, bustier-style minidress and matching slide-on stilettos.
Undeniably stunning, the most attention-grabbing aspect of their outing was Justin's attire: a gray sweatshirt, matching shorts, crew socks, and yellow Crocs. The couple appeared as if they were attending entirely different events, yet there they stood in the midst of a chain donut shop in Times Square, surrounded by fans and influencers.
Who's to say which Bieber was dressed appropriately for the occasion? Perhaps Justin's comfortable sweats were better suited for the shop's fluorescent lighting and linoleum floors. On the other hand, Hailey emanated the aura of a successful businesswoman who had meticulously crafted an entire aesthetic to coincide with the launch of her brand's latest product. She is undeniably savvy, having conceptualized an entire foodcore trend to promote her new release. Hence, she has the freedom to dress exactly as she pleases.
Maybe both individuals were attired appropriately, or perhaps the significance lies not in outward appearances. It's even difficult for me, as a writer at a fashion magazine, to admit that what you wear may not be the most crucial aspect. Perhaps, what truly matters is wearing what makes you feel comfortable and confident—a notion that even my boyfriend can understand and embrace.